Showing Honor to One Another

Part of the daily reading today was from Rom 12:5-16b where St. Paul was writing about how people should treat each other as followers of Jesus. While one cannot reduce Christ’s teaching to a mere eleven lines, this uplifting passage is a wonderful start and is included below.

Romans 12: 5-16b 

5 So we, though many, are one body in Christ and individually parts of one another. 

6 Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us exercise them: if prophecy, in proportion to the faith; 

7 if ministry, in ministering; if one is a teacher, in teaching; 

8 if one exhorts, in exhortation; if one contributes, in generosity; if one is over others, with diligence; if one does acts of mercy, with cheerfulness. 

Mutual Love

9 Let love be sincere; hate what is evil, hold on to what is good; 

10 love one another with mutual affection; anticipate one another in showing honor. 

11 Do not grow slack in zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord. 

12 Rejoice in hope, endure in affliction, persevere in prayer. 

13 Contribute to the needs of the holy ones, exercise hospitality. 

14 Bless those who persecute [you], bless and do not curse them. 

15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. 

16 Have the same regard for one another; do not be haughty but associate with the lowly;



Hebrews and Us

Every month I enjoy reading our Diocesan newspaper, Fairfield County Catholic. One of their excellent writers, Thomas Hicks, contributed an excerpt from N, T, Wright’s book, Hebrews for Everyone. His message about growing in the faith really struck me and is as appropriate for today as the Letter to the Hebrews was two thousand years ago. It follows below.

The Letter to the Hebrews can be quite intimidating. It was not written by St. Paul, the author is unknown, and it is not a letter, but a sermon. For many Catholics, Hebrews has become the unknown text, yet Hebrews is one of the most meaningful texts in the New Testament. The writer of Hebrews has much to say to Catholics today. It was written for Christians who were tempted to fall away from the faith. The writer seeks to bolster their faith and encourage them to persevere. As one commentator on Hebrews stated: “Prepare to be changed when you drink deeply from Hebrews. It will leave you better than when you started.”

There’s a grand opening to the Letter. “At various times in the past and in various ways God has spoken to our ancestors through the prophets. But in our own time, the last days, he has spoken to us through His Son, the Son He has appointed to inherit everything and through whom He made everything there is. He is the radiant light of God’s glory and the perfect copy of His nature, sustaining the universe by his powerful command (1:1-3). (Two other New Testament writings have powerful, memorable beginnings: John 1:1-5 and First John 1:1-5.)

In Hebrews, Christ is described as “the perfect copy of God’s nature.” This asserts that Christ shares in everything that God is in His divine nature. Thus we look to Christ for the full reve- lation of the divine nature. We’re told that Jesus not only calls the universe into existence, he con- stantly sustains it by his powerful word.

The preacher tells how through his own death and ressurection, Christ takes away the power of death and “delivers all those who through fear of death were subject to lifelong bondage” (2:14-15). He tells his readers how in Christ they have a high-priest who enables them with confidence to draw near to the throne of God and receive mercy and find grace to help them in time of need (4:16). He is giving reasons for staying with the faith.

Then in chapter 5 we meet a sudden and surprising passage. In verse 12 he suddenly tells his readers that the major problem is that they need milk, not solid food. It’s a remarkable rebuke that must have burst upon its hearers like a sudden cold shower. The Preacher clearly wants to wake them up. He accuses them of being “sluggish” in their willingness to learn more about the faith. He is echoing St. Paul who in First Corinthians 3:1-2 made the same criticism: “I could only address you as people who are mere infants in Christ. I gave you milk, not solid food, for you were not yet ready for it. Indeed, you are still not ready.”

The author of Hebrews must have known his audience quite well, to be able to make his analysis about where they were intellectually and spiritually, and to have the courage to say it straight to them. He tells them that every- one who drinks milk is unskilled in the word of God.

Such people are just babies.  Mature people need solid food (5:12).

A commentator on these words from the Letter to the Hebrews writes the following:

“In our churches today we need to recognize this same tendency. It is one thing for people who are genuinely young in the faith to say ‘let’s keep it simple and easy.’ It is quite another thing for people who have been Catholic for some time to say, or imply, ‘We’re too lazy to do that.’ Learning more about the Christian faith is a way of growing in strength in our praying, our living, our work. Holding back from such learning perhaps with a false humility of ‘I’m not good at understanding these things’ when we really mean ‘I can’t be bothered to try,’ which is a way of saying that we want to remain spiritual babies. The writer of Hebrews tells his readers that they ought to grow up to the stage where they can talk intelligently with those who are younger in the faith. They ought to have been on solid food some time, but they still seem to need more milk.

“There are the Catholic ABCs, the rudimentary teachings, some basics. Most of our congregations don’t even know much about them. Many in our churches couldn’t tell you why we baptize people, what precisely the resurrection is. It’s not, I think, that people learned the ABCs long ago, and forgotten it. No: they haven’t ever learned it in the first place. And the writer of Hebrews

wants them to go deeper, to teach them more developed and wide-ranging truths.”

In particular, the author of Hebrews and the commentator on his sermon want to see grown-up Christian people: people and communities who have learned deeply about the faith. It is important to remind people that there is such a thing as maturity in the faith, that they should be seeking it, and that mature people normally need, and indeed prefer, solid food. With solid food one experiences new

kinds of life and love; you experience the Bible like a long cool- drink on a hot day, or like solid food when you haven’t realized how hungry you were.

The commentator in Hebrews continues: “After people have learned the ABCs of the Christian faith, they must go on from there. Most do not. What’s gone wrong? There’s been a collapse in teach- ing the faith. There is a massive failure on the part of Catholic educators, preachers, catechists and evangelists. I have come to believe that the 10-minute homily on a Sunday morning is not sufficient for Catholics to grow in their faith. Usually, the homilies give trite rehashes of some ABCs. Many of our sermons are couched in predictable words. The majority of people who have drifted away from the Church have left not in anger but in disappointment. Many say: ‘I never felt that my spiritual needs were being met.’”

Pope Francis often speaks of wanting an Adult Church.

Research claims that, among Catholics, attempts to offer solid Bible Studies and lectures are attended by less than one-half of one percent.

The claim is made that reverent actions of believers are just as effective, if not more so, as tools of catechesis. There is some truth to this, but far from the whole truth. As the author of Hebrews recognized, steadfast faithfulness needs more than that.

Cf. N.T.Wright, Hebrews For Everyone, John Knox Press, Louisville, KY, pp.51-58.



Don’t Break the Bowl: Straight Talk for a Busy Soul — Even the Sparrow

We pulled into the school parking lot and swung open our van doors to let in the kids pile in, fresh from school and ready for snacks, sports practices, and all the activities of each evening. My friend smiled as they scurried around us, backpacks and water bottles flying. “How are you?” she asked, and…

Don’t Break the Bowl: Straight Talk for a Busy Soul — Even the Sparrow

An excellent piece shared from Claire Dwyer’s blog – Even the Sparrow.

Loving and Serving People-The Only Real Path to Contentment

Several of the daily Mass readings recently were from 1Timothy which have always had much meaning for me. The publication Word Among Us had an excellent piece on 1Tm 6: 2c-12 recently and is presented here.

Catholic Meditations 

Meditation: 1 Timothy 6:2-12 

Religion with contentment is a great gain. (1 Timothy 6:6) 

Are you content? It’s a surprisingly complicated question. We love Jesus, but sometimes we feel unfulfilled. We have heard, “The love of money is the root of all evils,” but it isn’t always about money (1 Timothy 6:10). Sure, material things like our possessions, food, or recreation can compete for our love. But the desire for recognition, status, or fame can also make us feel dissatisfied. 

What are you longing for? Each of us probably has something that feels just out of reach, and we think that if we had it, we would finally be happy. For some, it’s money or material possessions. For others, it’s recognition, popularity, or respect. Whatever it is for you, know that if it becomes a focal point, it can ensnare you. You can become envious of those who have what you want. Still yearning for something more, you can stray from the foundation of your faith and mistakenly think that you need Jesus and something else. 

Banish this fiction from your mind! All you really need is Jesus. He alone can give you true and lasting contentment. As you learn how to place everything else in its proper context, you will find yourself receiving more from Jesus. 

The best way to find this kind of contentment is to bring your attachments to the Lord and ask him to set you free. Remember, you didn’t bring anything into this world, and you won’t take anything out of it. The only thing that will stand the test of time is knowing Christ and knowing that you have loved and served his people. If you dedicate yourself to advancing these goals, not only will you please the Lord, but you’ll also become more and more content. 

Jesus doesn’t condemn anyone for having riches, for taking pride in their accomplishments, or for enjoying their possessions. But he does warn people who find their security in these things more than in him. He wants all of us to set our hearts on things above, not on earthly matters. This is the best way to keep our possessions and our reputations in the right perspective. It’s also a great way to build the kingdom. 

“Lord, help me to overcome the attachments that keep me from you. Jesus, I want to find the contentment of knowing you!” 

Psalm 49:6-10, 17-20 

Luke 8:1 


Morning of Reflection – St Peter Church Danbury CT

Religion and Ritual

Religion and Ritual is the Sept. topic. Today we often hear the statement, “I’m spiritual but not religious.” Yet from the beginning of humankind peoples were religious and created rituals to honor or supplicate their gods. We will look at this reality and examine the role of religion for us. Join Yvette Lessard in the Parish hall of St Peter Church on Main St. in Danbury CT, Thurs. Sept. 12 from 10-11:45 AM



And The Rich Man Turned Away Sad

It has been a busy but good summer that has slowed down my posting. Most recently spending four days with my two sisters and their families and my mother in Colorado. A time that really rejuvenates the soul.

Now that I am back, there have been several good Daily readings in August. One of them was the story about the rich man who asked Jesus several questions about what he should do to gain eternal life. We usually focus on how he was saddened by Jesus’ final response and went away sad. We do not hear about him again but was that really the end of his story? Here was a man who realized that he needed to grow and that is why he approached Jesus. Isn’t this what we should be doing as followers of Jesus i.e to ask questions of ourselves and seek asnwers from God? The meditation by Word Among Us on this reading was excellent and is included below.

Meditation: Matthew 19:16-22 

What do I still lack? (Matthew 19:20) 

When we read this story of the rich young man, we often focus on how he “went away sad” (Matthew 19:22). But we don’t always give him enough credit. He knew enough to realize he needed help—and to ask Jesus for it. His question was sincere too: “Teacher, what good must I do?” He wanted to be a better man, and he wanted the “eternal life” that he saw the disciples enjoying (19:16). 

This is a good question for us to ask Jesus every day as well. In fact, the Church encourages us to do it. Every day, we can ask Jesus to help us see how we are doing in our walk with him and how we can do better. In the sixteenth century, St. Ignatius of Loyola developed a way for us to do just that. He called it the “Daily Examen.” Here’s a version that consists of five steps. 

The first step is to thank God for all the blessings you’ve received that day. What are you thankful for? 

The second step is to pray to the Holy Spirit. It can be hard to recognize God’s presence in the course of the day. So ask him to help you look back with spiritual hindsight to see where he was with you that day. 

Third, review what happened today. Whom did you encounter? What situations and emotions arose? How was God speaking to you through them? And how did you respond? Don’t worry about every circumstance; just look at what stands out. 

Fourth, think about when you felt closest to God. Perhaps it was as someone helped you in the grocery store or as you admired a beautiful sunset. When did you feel further away from God? Maybe you felt impatient when someone asked you for help. Perhaps someone cut you off in traffic, and you got angry. Be sure to ask the Lord’s forgiveness for any sins and for his help to change. But remember, don’t go away sad! Jesus is inviting you to follow him on the path to heaven. 

Your fifth and final step is to look ahead to the next day. Think about the people you’ll meet, the situations you’ll face, and invite Jesus to be part of them. Remember, he wants to walk with you every step of the way. 

“Lord, open my eyes! Help me to become more like you.” 

Judges 2:11-19 

Psalm 106:34-37, 39-40, 43-44 


A Catholic Health Care Alternative

Over the years, I have talked with friends about how we, as Catholics, can make our faith more central to living our lives. Throughout history, the Church and its related organizations have usually been an integral part of a town or city’s life. An example would be the Knights of Columbus which was started in Connecticut in the 1880s by Father McGivney to help widowed mothers who were in poor financial shape after losing their husbands. They created insurance plans for families and have grown into a large fraternal benefit organization since then. In the past ten years, they have donated $1.5 billion to charitable causes.

Recently, I came across another Catholic fraternal benefit organization, Christ Medicus Foundation CURO, that is doing the same thing for health care. CURO (Latin for to care for, cure, heal , and watch over) is an affordable health care option for commited Catholics and Christians. CMF CURO members actively participate in God’s love and providence through medical cost sharing as members of Samaritan Ministries International (SMI). They are a 501 (c)(3) non-profit and not a health insurance company. And by affordable, their brochure shows a monthly share of $304 (1 person) and $579 (family of 3+). They are certainly worth considering as an alternative to secular health insurance.

I spoke with Jordan Buzza, JD (248.530.9651) who was most helpful in answering my questions. For complete info, you can also call 800 8407471 or visit

Here is a link for a CMFCURO video (4 minutes):